Find pleasure, peace and confidence in your sexuality
Intimacy Coaching for Couples, Men and Women
What My Clients Say

Hi, I’m Graham
I’ve had the privilege of walking together with people as they make a way through their fears and desires to find the connection they long for.
Through my own process of facing up to issues of guilt, shame and ignorance, I’ve become a passionate believer in our need to honestly own our sexuality and actively co-create the relationships we desire. Through trial and error, I’ve experienced the benefits of this in my own journey and watched so many others discover it for themselves.
My mission is to help you get free from whatever holds you back to help you feel empowered and believe that you can create a more fulfilling relationship.
It is so uplifting to see people catch the vision and feel confident that they can positively affect their most intimate connections.
Intimacy Coaching for Couples, Men and Women

Couples
Are you looking for help to navigate challenges and reignite your connection?

Women

Men
What you can expect from me
I like to avoid the three killers of connection… blaming, shaming and judgement and look for what is missing rather than what is wrong.
I want to understand how you have become the person you are and then to hear your hopes and aspirations for yourself and your intimate connections with others. Then I want to help you find your way there.
My first requirement is for honesty so that we can work on what is real. I will help you discover your sexual self and learn what you want and how to ask for it.
Imagine feeling confident in yourself and able to turn up to enjoy intimacy with a lover.
If you’re ready for change, contact me to find out how we could work together.
From the blog
Why does sex go wrong? (Part one)
Most people will have a bad sex story and it will probably have been more than just an embarrassment. Sex is such a core aspect of who we are that we can be very sensitive to negative feedback… better fake it than lose face or expose a loved one....
Why is sex so important?
Sex is so important because it affects us in our bodies, our emotions, and relationships and can even expand our spirituality. Let’s look at some aspects of the biology of sex. Everyone came into being because two people had sex – our biological...
Why does sex go wrong? (Part two)
"Which bit goes in which hole", was all the sex education that a young carpenter told me he had received. He raised his eyebrows as if to say, "What could possibly go wrong?" Most of our preparations for sexual encounters seem to rely heavily on...