Find pleasure, peace and confidence in your sexuality

Intimacy Coaching for Couples, Men and Women

What My Clients Say

I enjoyed meeting with him tremendously even through some pretty tough and intense sessions. I would wholeheartedly recommend Graham to anyone who is having any sexual issues whatsoever, whether they are in a long term relationship or not. He reassures and supports you every step of the way.
Dr Graham Stevenson accepts and honours client’s boundaries. He stays very professional throughout the whole process. He not only has the skills but also broad sexological knowledge.
Graham has shown warmth, understanding and empathy consistently during every session. He has facilitated us to explore our thoughts and feelings in an attempt to better understand our needs as individuals and as a couple. He shows great insight and awareness ….. which has helped us feel relaxed and at ease which has assisted us […]
It was very good to meet. I was hoping to confirm lots of stuff and also find out other information and generally be pointed in the right direction which you absolutely did. So very grateful.
The session was amazing. I slept really peacefully last night, I woke up and I reckon i am a good 8.5 (hope value out of 10)…. the way you organise the thoughts really resonates with me at a deeper level…
Graham provided a place of comfort and acceptance where I could and did discuss anything. He was completely non-judgmental and unshockable. I enjoyed meeting with him tremendously even through some pretty tough and intense sessions. I would wholeheartedly recommend Graham to anyone who is having any sexual issues whatsoever. He reassures and supports you every […]
Graham supported me and challenged me in so many different ways, getting me to not always point the finger of blame at someone else for my issues but also evaluating my role in things, whilst also not ‘beating myself up’ and feeling solely responsible for my marital problems.
Graham has always provided a place where I feel safe and able to talk and be myself. I have found a freedom within myself that I did not know existed. For me it was a journey of self-discovery. He is completely unshockable and calm in every situation. The help and support that I have been […]
I went to see Graham to talk through different problems that I’d had in my marriage relating to sex. Sex wasn’t part of our marriage, and life, children and all that goes with that had taken over. Graham helped me to feel like I could talk to him about anything and that I didn’t need […]
dr graham stevenson

Hi, I’m Graham

I’ve specialised in sex and relationship issues for more than 20 years now helping couples and individuals create their best relationships.

I’ve had the privilege of walking together with people as they make a way through their fears and desires to find the connection they long for.

Through my own process of facing up to issues of guilt, shame and ignorance, I’ve become a passionate believer in our need to honestly own our sexuality and actively co-create the relationships we desire. Through trial and error, I’ve experienced the benefits of this in my own journey and watched so many others discover it for themselves.

My mission is to help you get free from whatever holds you back to help you feel empowered and believe that you can create a more fulfilling relationship.

It is so uplifting to see people catch the vision and feel confident that they can positively affect their most intimate connections.

Intimacy Coaching for Couples, Men and Women

My aim is to provide a space that is safe and kind for people to have one of the hardest conversations about such deeply personal issues as sex and intimacy.
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Couples

Are you looking for help to navigate challenges and reignite your connection?

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Women

Do you want to be free from negative stories and find pleasure in your sexuality?
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Men

Do you have a sense of inadequacy or shame and long to be confident in your sexuality?

What you can expect from me

I like to avoid the three killers of connection… blaming, shaming and judgement and look for what is missing rather than what is wrong.

I want to understand how you have become the person you are and then to hear your hopes and aspirations for yourself and your intimate connections with others. Then I want to help you find your way there.

My first requirement is for honesty so that we can work on what is real. I will help you discover your sexual self and learn what you want and how to ask for it.

Imagine feeling confident in yourself and able to turn up to enjoy intimacy with a lover.

If you’re ready for change, contact me to find out how we could work together.

From the blog

Why does sex go wrong? (Part one)

Why does sex go wrong? (Part one)

Most people will have a bad sex story and it will probably have been more than just an embarrassment.  Sex is such a core aspect of who we are that we can be very sensitive to negative feedback… better fake it than lose face or expose a loved one....

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Why is sex so important?

Why is sex so important?

Sex is so important because it affects us in our bodies, our emotions, and relationships and can even expand our spirituality. Let’s look at some aspects of the biology of sex. Everyone came into being because two people had sex – our biological...

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Why does sex go wrong? (Part two)

Why does sex go wrong? (Part two)

"Which bit goes in which hole", was all the sex education that a young carpenter told me he had received.  He raised his eyebrows as if to say, "What could possibly go wrong?"  Most of our preparations for sexual encounters seem to rely heavily on...

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